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Chase Your Dreams. Follow Your Heart. Never Settle.

Saturday, July 3rd, 2010

College Graduates

“Risk more than others think is safe. Care more than others think is wise. Dream more than others think is practical. Expect more than others think is possible.”

~ Cadet Maxim

Since graduation, I’ve been searching for the right road towards my adult life. I’ve spent hours watching the stars thinking about my future and where it will lead me. How will I get there? Where is there? What if I make a wrong decision? Dozens of questions occupy my daily thoughts. But one thing life has taught me is to always follow my dreams and never settle for anything less than that.

“Never let the odds keep you from doing what you know in your heart you were meant to do.”

~ H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

I always listen to my instincts. They have led me to amazing, incredible places. My inner thoughts have shown me a world I don’t know I would have ever found if I didn’t listen to them. Now, life seems a lot more challenging. I’m on my own, and if I mess up it’s me to blame. But, taking risks is what life is all about. Life is about the adventure of finding yourself and the road you are meant to be on.

I’m following my dreams…all of them and you should, too. No matter how scared you are to take that leap; jump.  If you chase your dreams and it doesn’t work out the way you planned well, at least you know you tried. You can live knowing that you did everything you set your heart out to do. And if you “fail”, you still gained an experience you will learn and grow from.

“Trust your own instinct. Your mistakes might as well be your own, instead of someone else’s.”

~ Billy Wilder

The most successful people in this world have gotten to where they are now by taking risks. At one time in their lives, they were at the same stepping stones we are taking right now. They were afraid of losing it all, but they kept their dreams in sight and went for them. They fought for what mattered to them and they didn’t settle.

That’s what we need to do.  If your heart is telling you to go somewhere and your dreams are in reach, take that chance and become the person you dream of becoming. We only have one life to live. Don’t waste it wishing you took that leap. Go wherever your dreams may lead you. You will be glad you did.

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”

~ Mark Twain

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26 Things To Do As A Recent Grad

Monday, June 7th, 2010

Rome

While I’m in search for the perfect job, I have made many goals for myself. I have realized that this time “off” is very special. I have the opportunity to do things I haven’t been able to partake in since my hectic life as a college student began. Now, I have the freedom to try new things, go to new places and enjoy the hobbies I love. So, while I am diligently looking for my new place in this world, I will take advantage of living each moment of my life to the fullest.

26 things to do as a recent graduate:

  1. Travel. After graduation, I took a three week trip overseas. I traveled to the UK, France, Italy, Germany, Monaco, Austria, Belgium and the Netherlands. It was an indescribable experience that changed my life. I learned dozens of things I didn’t even know I didn’t know.
  2. Learn a new language. This is not only something that will personally challenge you, but it will also help widen your skills in the job market. Plus, once you pick up the basics, it makes traveling a lot more exciting!
  3. Get involved with a non-profit organization. Volunteering is not only rewarding, but it is fun. It is a great way to stay busy and make new friends while doing something good for the community.
  4. Organize your life. After years of school, it is easy to begin a collection of “junk”. Take this time to go through your belongings and organize your documents. This is a fun way to reminisce about the past. Plus, it is proven that less clutter improves productivity. All right!
  5. Donate your items to Good Will. Your old items may become someone else’s treasure.
  6. Get active! Ride your bike, go for a hike, canoe, rollerblade, try a new fitness class and go for a walk. This can change your life.
  7. Read for fun. Throughout my academic years, school took over my life. I had hundreds of books on my “want to read” list, but I never had time to read because of school. Now, time is on our side.
  8. Have fun with H20. I have never been a big fan of swimming, but I absolutely love the water. I plan on spending my days exploring new beaches and collecting shells. To me, there is nothing better than being one with nature.
  9. Become a pro-chef! I love to cook, but let’s face it, I’ve dedicated more time to public relations than I have my diet. So this summer I will become a master chef! Who knows, maybe one day I will become so talented that I will have my own cooking show! Anything is possible!
  10. Reconnect with family and friends. After a demanding few years in college, it’s time to play catch up with the ones you care about. Now is the perfect time to reach out to new and old friends and re-build relationships.
  11. Run a race for charity. I have always been an active individual, but I have never had the courage to run a 5k. This summer I will run and I will love it!
  12. Reminisce on past experiences. I love looking back on my life and remembering where I came from. Now is the time to put together homemade videos and scrapbooks that will recapture those memories.
  13. Try new restaurants, shops and cafes. After returning from Europe, I’ve realized how “scheduled” my life has become. I go to the same restaurants and cafes each week rarely trying new places. My new goal is to push away from that conformity. It’s time to step out of the box and try new things.
  14. Do what you love. I have so many hobbies, but I hardly partake in any of them because there is always “so much to do”. This summer, I’m making the time to do what I long to do. I will feed the ducks, redesign my house and write. There are too many wonderful experiences out there; dive into what you love.
  15. Movie marathon night with your friends. I don’t know about you, but ever since I started college, my movie-going days have come and gone. A movie marathon night is a perfect way to catch up with friends and have fun!
  16. Make a bucket list. I know this may seem a little crazy but it’s worth it. Life is meant to be enjoyed. So write down everything you want to accomplish in life, big and small, and create an on-going bucket list. This will keep you both focused and active.
  17. Do something that scares you and do it often. The things that have shaped my life are those things I have accomplished that terrify me. Those experiences have helped build my character. Challenge yourself. Don’t be afraid of the unknown.
  18. Babysit. Believe it or not, you will learn more from children than you think. Kids have innocence, a sense of adventure and a carefree-spirit that is so hard to find in adults. Spending time with kids will help you rediscover yourself. Plus, it is an excuse to act like a kid all over again.
  19. Do things that you wouldn’t normally do. For example, go to the zoo or the aquarium. I have had some of the most amazing experiences doing activities that most young adults wouldn’t really find interest in anymore. It’s all about the adventure! So, why not?
  20. Attend local sporting events. There are dozens of events going on all year round. Go to the football, basketball, baseball, hockey, tennis, soccer and rugby games. It may even inspire you to go out there and play some ball yourself!
  21. Become a mentor. Building relationships and helping others is what life is all about.
  22. Pay attention to the news. Learn everything you can and use your time to absorb and learn the history of our nation.
  23. Try new things. Let the adventure of the unknown take you to new places. Don’t let it discourage you.
  24. Go to concerts, festivals, carnivals and shows. They are there for a reason.
  25. Keep applying! This time spent in search for your future is great, but don’t take advantage of it too much. It is a gift and it isn’t meant to last too long! (This is why it is so special). Always remember why you went to school and what your career goals are. Work is fun! So spend your time networking and learning all about new possibilities.
  26. Live your life and enjoy it!
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What Happened to Religion?

Wednesday, September 23rd, 2009

Is it just me, or is religion becoming more of a problem than a place of comfort? As a child, my parents always told me “never talk politics or religion with anyone.” I always wondered why. It was during my college years that this motto really took me to heart.

People are very different. Everyone has a story and a unique background that makes them who they are. So when something comes up that may insult their heritage or background, people can get really offensive and fast. People have the natural ability to judge others. Today’s religions are nothing but stereotypes judged from one group to another. So what do we do? Do we talk about it and risk the possibility of hate and/or crime? Do we ignore the differences and possibly hide faith,which is apart of who you are?

There is no solution. I was brought up to keep my faith quiet. Even though there are billions of people with the same belief system as me, the fear of people judging me made my family scared. I always hated this. We live in America! The land of the free where religion isn’t supposed to be judged. And yet, it is. No matter what the Constitution may say people’s actions are speaking louder than words.

Pierce quoted Mr. Madison, “the latent causes of faction are (thus) sown in every man, and we see them everywhere brought into different degrees of activity, according to the different circumstances of civil society. A zeal for different opinions concerning religion, concerning government, and many other points…have in turn divided mankind into parties, inflamed them with mutual animosity, and rendered them much more disposed to vex and oppress each other than to co-operate for common good.”

What Mr.Madison says is beautiful. We came to America to get away from conformity and strict rules. We came here to have a better life and to be free to make choices on how we live our lives. Religion has gotten out of control and somewhere along the lines people are using religion as an excuse for their behavior. People are forcing themselves, many times through crime, on other people.

Religion has made people scared of other religions. People are judging other religions based on a few bad apples of that culture. People over look what their beliefs have instilled and instead of loving and respecting others for their uniqueness; people hate. When the AIDS epidemic began in the 1980s, people ran away from those with the disease. There weren’t many hospitals, hospice, churches or other areas of prayer that would welcome them. When those individuals with AIDS needed help we all ran. No one was there for them.

Even in the modern world we live in today, there is very little diversity in the religions. Calendars rarely include the holidays of Judaism, Buddhist, Hindus ect. If we live in such an open world why aren’t these people’s beliefs being heard?

In the end all we have is each other. If we look back at 911 we ALL felt the same fears, we ALL lost loved ones, we ALL were effected. Every single person. It doesn’t matter where you are from, what your race is, your ethnicity, your age or your religion. We were all scared. For the first time, in a long time, religions came together. People no longer cared about the differences. We just wanted peace. Where did it go?

Instead of judging your neighbor, talk to them. If they have a different faith than you, take some time to learn about it. Many faiths are very similiar and yet we find reasons to “hate” one another.

“Love your neighbor as thyself.”  This can create great change.

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The Conspiracy Of It All

Wednesday, September 16th, 2009

The American culture is heavily consumed by conspiracy. We are surrounded by gossip, secrets and mystery. To me, it is no surprise that the secret legends of our country are questioned. But, that is one thing that makes our country so great; the power of thought. As I continue reading Pierce’s novel on the idiocy of America, I began to develop my own pattern of thought.

America is a leading nation. Many countries around the world look up to the practices of our founders. Countries have changed their style of government to mold themselves to be a little more like the USA. It should be a great compliment to our foundation.

So now, no longer is the US the only country based off secrets and conspiracies. Other countries are now taking on the same interests and habits as the American’s. Conspiracies are developed through human nature. It is not just the citizens of America that believe in the possibilities of secrets and hidden truths. Almost our entire human race has history that can be traced back to some type of conspiracy.

What bothers me the most about Pierce’s writing is that he tends to focus on the “bad” issues that have developed throughout the American history. The truth is, no one is perfect. We, as American’s, have come a long way in our journey. We have created a place of hope for people all around the world. Yes, there may be conspiracies, problems, issues and secrets that surround the American culture. But that is life. Europe, Asia, Australia and all the other continents and countries have problems too. Humans are meant to make mistakes, but that is what makes us so great. We have the power to learn, change and grow. Idiot America is leadership. There are many people in under-privileged countries that look at our society and wish they had half the things that we have. Through it all, we are lucky. We are blessed to be a part of one of the leading nations in the world.

I believe that it should be celebrated. I believe that there are mistakes, and conspiracies. But I also believe in the change that we can make. Let us stay positive and learn from what is wrong and make it right.

For what we now know about our culture, let us make a change. Let us make ethical decisions inside and outside of the work place. We should use our technology and media to make that positive change. Let us be a guiding inspiration to other countries.

In a world based around money, this task may seem difficult. People want to feel inspired. They want to feel a change inside of them. I look at Oprah and see her as an incredible role model to the world and the workplace. She makes ethical, smart decisions. She tells the truth and she does things for the people. She has a warm heart and gives to those in need. In our society, people care too much about money and not enough about the world around us.

So what can we do? If everyone can make better ethical decisions, this world can be a better and smarter place. It only takes one person to make a difference. We can all be that person to inspire someone else to make a change.

There are tools all around us to help. When you twitter, think about your audience. Send out optimistic tweets from time to time, tell a joke and make someone’s day.

A few years ago Dove created a new campaign about true beauty. They spoke out against the traditional methods of advertising. It was truly inspiring. It is what made me want to work in the media and make a difference. The campaign was all about true beauty from the inside out. It didn’t show the perfect size 00 women in their advertisements. It showed real people every shape and size. That is true beauty.

People are so affected by the media. Many people don’t even realize it until it’s too late. I refuse to let this happen. We need more Oprah Winfrey’s, Ellen DeGeneres’, Taylor Swift’s and Martin Luther King’s. We need more people to start picking up the slack from everyone else. The media controls the world. So, let us become smarter and become someone’s hero.

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“Anything can be true if someone says it loudly enough.” – Charles Pierce

Wednesday, September 9th, 2009

As Charles Pierce continues his journey through Idiot America he examines every ounce of our American culture. When our founders came to America, they were trying to get away from the bias from their previous country. As Pierce describes in chapter three, “The founders wanted to raise a nation of educated people. But they were not trying to do so by establishing an orthodoxy of their own to replace the one at which they were chipping away.”

After all the hopes and dreams of our founders we still became a country surrounded in bias. The founders believed we would be different, and in many ways we are; however, we tend to lose sight of what is important. Our society is based on competition. At every age, shape and form someone is trying to out-do the person next to them. Fame has taken over our values and morals. Thanks to the internet, people’s values are tested everyday just in hopes for their five minutes of fame. Anyone can become a star through Youtube, Myspace, Twitter and Facebook. Anyone can say anything about anyone, and now too many people are abusing the tools that can be empowering our country.

When I read the section on the victims of Flight 93 I had to flip back and re-read the section. I was shocked by the power of communication, and how quickly a great momentum turned into a conspiracy. A blogger named Alec Rawls heard about the conspiracy theory of the memorial, and used technology to reach out to the public. He did research and published a book all within a short time. This conspiracy developed into an issue in the community. The memorial had changed because of one blogger.

Pierce said, “It is, of course, television that has enabled Idiot America to run riot within modern politics and all forms of public discourse. It’s not that there is less information on television than there once was. In fact, there is so much information that ‘fact’ is now defined as something believed by so many people that television notices their belief, and truth is measured by how fervently they believe it.”

American’s love to be entertained and the media is doing whatever it takes to make sure that it happens. We are more concerned about the latest celebrity gossip than what is going on in the world. Even political issues are being twisted and turning into celebrity gossip. In 2004, a Zogby poll discovered that 57% of the undecided voters in that year’s election would rather have a beer with George Bush than with John Kerry. Now, as interesting as this may be in a discussion with your friends, shouldn’t we be polling on the issues? When did having a beer with a future president become a serious media topic?

Over the years America has turned into “pop” culture. We are forgetting the importance and basics that make this country great. We can get so caught up in the “what ifs” that we begin to believe things before ever finding out the truth.

As public relations practitioners, we have the power and responsibility to use the tools: blogs, television, internet, newspapers and magazines to bring people to their common senses. We can help make people think and question the thousands of messages we see everyday. There are millions of smart, well educated people who have gotten lost in  the “gossip” because it’s easy. Not many people step up to the challange to help make people stop and think about what is important, right, fair and true.

For the rest of our lives people will continue to make bad decisions and say ‘stupid’ things. It is our challenge to remind the world of where we came from, how we got here and what we can do to make a difference. Idiot America doesn’t have to be. It’s up to us to make the change.

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Idiot America

Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009

During my first look at Idiot America, by Charles Pierce, I didn’t know what to expect. I was intrigued by his topic on “the stupidity of America,” but how stupid could we really be? As American’s, we are one of the world’s top producers, and we have a high percentage of college graduates. Some of the most amazing discoveries and inventions take place on U.S. soil.

In his introduction, I found myself at the edge of my seat. He begins his demonstration by explaining the scene in the Creation Museum. Families are walking around carefully looking at all the exhibits, on the biblical history, without any concern for what is being represented. There are dinosaurs wearing saddles, dinosaurs on Noah’s Ark and a new Eden. Meanwhile, none of the guests stop and hesitate to think about these new exhibits. They leave the museum without questioning why the dinosaurs have saddles on, and how their weight was supported on Noah’s Ark. This is Idiot America.

At that moment it all clicked. As American’s, we are some of the most educated people in the world, yet we can be oblivious to the important things around us. Sometimes, we can get away with the impossible.

The average American will trust unreliable sources. Anyone who claims to be an expert, no matter what their knowledge may be, becomes one. As Pierce said, “If everyone is an expert, then nobody is.” With the rise of the internet, anyone can become the new leader in any trend. Technology has made it easy for any person to say anything and believe whatever is being stated. Social media sites such as: Twitter, Facebook and Myspace have made communication too easy. In many ways this is a huge benefit for our society, but in other ways, we are losing sight in face-to-face communication.

Pierce believes that Idiot America isn’t a new trend. The internet hasn’t made us anymore stupid. This stupidity has been here since the birth of our country. It can be pinpointed back to the 1700’s. So when will we become smarter? When will we start thinking for ourselves?

Before the start of this book, I believed American’s were fairly smart. I believed we had almost everything figured out; however, now I see we have a long ways to go. Maybe, if more people took the time to read about the patterns of America’s idiocy we can grow and move forward. There may be hope for us after all, but be careful, it would be silly to believe everything that Pierce has to say. No matter who is speaking, we need to learn how to think for ourselves.

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